NAKAISIP KA NA BA NG NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION?

May new year's resolution ka na ba?

Marami sa atin ang naghahanda na ng kanilang new year's resolution sa ngayon ngunit marami rin ang hindi nagagawang tuparin ang mga ito.

Kung tutuusin ay hindi naman talaga natin kailangan ng new year's resolution dahil ang bawat araw ay bago. Bakit hindi nalang natin gawing daily resolution? or weekly resolution?

BAKIT KAILANGANG TAUN-TAON PA KUNG PWEDE NAMANG ARAW-ARAW?

Halimbawa ng mga karaniwan kong naririnig na new year's resolution ng karamihan...

• "Hindi na maninigarilyo."
• "Hindi na iinom ng alak."
• "Hindi na magiging tamad."
• "Hindi na magiging magastos."
• "Mag-aaral na nga mabuti."
• "Kakalimutan ko na siya."
• "Mag-didiet na."
• at kung anu-ano pa...

Sa tingin mo ba sa dami ng nangyari sayo sa loob ng isang taon malalaman mo kung ano dapat ang baguhin mo?

Hindi mo ba napapansin na ang kadalasang new year's resolution ay yung mga karaniwang ginagawa mo ng paulit-ulit kaya't mahirap gawin iyon ng biglaan kahit na sabihin mong "It's all on your mind." Siguro sa ung mga linggo o buwan magagawa mo pero hindi mo napapansin unti-unti ng bumabalik yon.

Ang kadalasang sinasabi tuloy ng karamihan kapag hindi nila natupad ang resolution nila...

"May next year pa naman..."

PARANG Mañana Habit or "Mamaya na...Bukas na...Sa isang linggo na...Next month..."

Masabi mo lang na nasa uso ka ay mag-iisip ka na ng new year's resolution kahit wala kang maisip kaya't yung mga karaniwan mo tuloy na nagagawa ang pinagdidiskitahan mo. Hindi madaling baguhin ang isang bagay na lagi mong ginagawa, may proseso yan, step by step lang tol! Huwag kang atat lalo na't sa tingin mo ay hindi ka pa handa at napilitan ka lang dahil mararamdaman mo naman kung talagang handa ka na baguhin yon.

Ang pagbabago hindi ginagawa YEARLY, MONTHLY, or WEEKLY. Natural sa isang tao ang magbago kaya't hindi mo kailangan pilitin ang sarili mo lalo na kung wala ka naman masyadong dapat baguhin sa sarili mo o kung meron man hindi kailangan YEARLY yan. Gawin mo kayang ARAW-ARAW 'di ba? Edi mas maraming resolution pa ang nagawa mo!  

NAGPAPADALA KA LANG KASI SA USO TAPOS KAPAG HINDI MO NATUPAD TATAWA KA NALANG AT SASABIHING MAY NEXT YEAR PA!

(knock on the wood) Paano kung hindi na abutin ng next year ang buhay mo? Edi namatay pang frustrated dahil hindi mo natupad ang resolution...tsk..tsk..tsk..

UTANG NA LOOB! Huwag mong gawing parang SOLAR ECLIPSE yang pagbabago mo na ONCE A YEAR LANG NANGYAYARI, mag-isip isip ka at imulat ang mga mata...

Isa lang ang masasabi ko sayo kung ganito ka nga kaibigan...

HUWAG KA NA GUMAWA NG NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION MO!!!  USELESS!!!

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MAY GOD BLESS US A PROSPEROUS

and

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! ^^,

Always be yourself!

By:

Charlie R. Dela Cruz

Inspired by those frustrated new year's resolution maker. ^^.

(December 31, 2010 at 7:23 am)

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This is His day.

I'm thinking if anong pwedeng maisulat at this moment 1:04 A.M. Dec. 25, 2010. I just started a topic recently but I wasn't able to continue it 'coz I don't have enough inspirations/thoughts for that kind of topic because I just coerced myself to write something about that topic. But now, I come to think that why shouldn't I post something related to the occasion today. :)

December 25, 2010...

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MERRY CHRISTMAS! ^^,

and

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS! ^^.

Thank you for having us here even though we're on trials we know that this is nothing compare to the trials you faced just to save us! We love you!

The Greatest gift of God is our LIFE!

By:

Charlie R. Dela Cruz

Inspired by...Christ's Day!

December 25, 2010 at 1:58 am)

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Na-INLOVE ka na ba o STILL SEARCHING? ... GANITO BA YUN?

Na-inlove ka na ba?

Na-love at first sight?

Still searching?

Kailan mo kaya masasabi na... "siya na nga"..."mahal ko na siya"...o compatible talaga kau???

Sa buhay natin, may mga bagay na hindi natin inaasahan. Paikot-ikot lang ang mundo. My mga taong dumadating sa buhay mo at may mga tao din na umaalis, pero paano kaya ntin malalaman kung sino sa libu-libong tao na kilala mo o makikilala mo magmamahal sayo o ang mamahalin mo?

Yung BESTFRIEND mo na kaya? Yung BARKADA? Yung KAKLASE? YungNAKASAKAY SA JEEP? Yung KAIBIGAN NG KAPATID MO? YungOFFICEMATE? Yung GF/BF mo ngayon? 

Maraming pang posibilidad pero hindi natin mismo masasabi kung sino talaga sa mga iyon dahil minsan ang akala mo yung kasalukuyan mo nang mahal ang habang buhay mo nang mahal pero nung nakakita ka ng iba ay biglang nagbago ang isip mo.

Sa totoo lng, hindi naman nakadepende lang doon yun...

"Kung iniwan ka dahil my iba na siya, hindi mo kailangan malungkot o maghanap ng kapalit niya dahil basta nalang yun dumadating...ibig sabihin lang din nun na malapit mo na makilala yung totoong magmamahal sayo ng tapat. Hindi mo kailangan magmakaawa sa kaniya para balikan ka at kung makipagbalikan man ay depende na sa iyo kung handa ka pa sa kung anuman ang pwede pang mangyari, tandaan mo lang na... sa desisyon mo nakasalalay ang kasiyahan mo."

"Kapag naghiwalay naman kayo dahil sa hindi pagkakasundo, pasalamat ka din dahil maaga pa lang alam niyo na na hindi niyo matitiis ang ugali ng isa't isa. At kung gusto niyo pa ng second chance, matuto kayong tanggapin at alamin ang sariling ugali bago ang sa isa't isa dahil hindi madaling umamin sa sariling kamalian, kaya't pwedeng maulit ang hindi pagkakasundo."

... ang lahat naman ng nangyayari sa buhay mo ay nakadepende sayo. Desisyon mo kung paano, sino, saan, at kailan.

Kung minsan kasi nagdadalawang isip tayo sa mga desisyon natin. Hindi natin alam kung gagawin ba natin o hindi.

Nagtatanong sa sarili...

"Bagay kaya kami?"

"Magtatagal kaya kami?"

"Magugustuhan kaya niya ako?"

"Masaya kaya siya maging bf/gf?"

"Pano kung makakilala ko ng iba habang kami pa?"

... hindi naman masama itanong ang mga bagay na yan sa ating sarili dahil gusto lang natin ng masaya at perpektong love life pero paano natin makikilala ang totoong taong mamahalin natin kung lagi natin ito itatanong sa ating sarili.

Minsan naman nakakalimutan din natin na mag-isip bago natin gawin kaya sa bandang huli nagiging "NINGAS KUGON" tayo o "Sa una lang magaling". Kung nag-dadalawang isip na tayo umpisa pa lang, mas mabuti nang huwag na nating subukan dahil baka makasakit at masaktan lang tayo.

Ikaw lang ang magde-desisyon kung mamahalin mo ang isang tao o hindi...WALANG DESTINY o FAIRY TALES na nangyayare, isa lang ang sagot sa lahat ng yan...

"MAGING KUNTENTO KA LANG."

By:

Charlie R. Dela Cruz

Inspired by stress?...

(December 12, 2010 at 6:08 pm)

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When to say 'I CANNOT' or 'I QUIT'?

Is it enough to say 'I quit!' or 'I CANNOT!'?

Do you complain of everything that is happening to you right now?

Aren't you satisfied with you body?

Do you easily lose hope?

Hope is the most reliable source of strength when it comes to the point that you don't know what to do and you think impossible things.

But WHEN can you say that it is time to QUIT or YOU CAN'T DO IT? Is itbefore you do the things you want to do but you think its impossible OR after you did it but you fail to accomplished it?... I won't answer it but YOU WILL REALIZE IT!

NOTE:

Watch this video first before continue reading, you don't need to finish the video, just look at it atleast a minute...

WARNING:

Do not watch this video while eating. This may lose your appetite. or do not watch this if you're afraid with blood but you can miss one of the greatest inspirational video you'll ever watched.

Here's the link>>>  http://current.com/154nm4c

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After/while seeing the video, what did you feel/felt? Disgusting? Sad? Anger? Happy? Annoying? Anxious? Pity? etc..

That video is real, Peng Shulin’s body was cut in half by a large transport truck in 1995.  It took a team of more than 20 doctors working feverishly to save his life. Skin was grafted from his head to close his torso up, but his lower body could not be saved — leaving him to ‘stand’ a full 2 feet 6 inches (78 centimeters) in height.

After being bedridden for years, doctors in China didn’t have very much hope that he would ever be able to lead any form of a normal life again.

I have a questions to you, if the doctors in China didn't have very much hope that Peng Shulinswould ever be able to lead any form of a normal life again, HOW MUCH MORE HOPELESSNESS TO PENG SHULIN himself?

By simply looking at this picture, what can you say?

Inspirational man.

If you were him, will you QUIT?

If you were him, will you be HOPELESS?

If you were him, will you feel ISOLATED?

Endurance of HOPE.

Triumph of human spirit

Even though he failed, he did not stopped. He continued. Maybe because he knows that Failure is just a requirement to SUCCESS.

And more than I say regarding the photos above is that it's a matter of optimismbecause, OPTIMISM is not just the way you think, but the way you stand up after you fall, and never quit after you fail. 

Life is journey and full of instances that you cannot say what will happen and when it will happen. Everything happens for a reason. Everything in this world has its beginning and also its end. It's only up to you how will manage for it and how will you adopt. This man proved that HOPE is the most miraculous weapon that we have. He never thinks of it as a problem though he became the way and inspiration to every people to realize that even the worst thing that could happen to your life, DON'T LOSE HOPE, NEVER QUIT, AND NEVER COMPLAIN. As you read above, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. 

If you will ask, what is the reason for what happened to him. I would definitely say that he became an INSPIRATION and HOPE not just to other people like him who is amputated but to all of the people who feels of EMPTINESS and HOPELESSNESS.

Reflect with this, we always tend to complain to simple problems we face through our lives yet we still lose hope and quit. Do you think you have the worst problem in this world? Money? Love? Loneliness? Disability? Is that so? Do not complain, but rather BE INSPIRED! You have the strength to face all of it more he, so why QUIT? You only need the courage and hope that YOU CAN DO IT! You have all the answers to your problems, all you need to do is REALIZE IT and THE GREATEST INSPIRATION FOR YOURSELF!

A smile that says it all.

Never said he CAN NOT.

LOOK! HE ALREADY MADE IT!  HOW COME YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN'T?

Never quit from failure.

Peng Shuilin has opened his own bargain supermarket, called the Half Man-Half Price Store.

The inspirational 37-year-old has become a businessman and is used as a role model for other amputees.

MAYBE HE IS A NOW A HALF-MAN, BUT HE IS AN INSPIRATION.

HOW ABOUT YOU? A FULL-BODIED WITH HOPELESS THOUGHTS? OR A FULL-BODIED WITH DISSATISFACTION?

Never Complain to everything that is happening to you right now, rather LET IT BE AN INSPIRATION FOR YOU!

After reading this, You shouldn't say " YOU CAN NOT or I CANNOT!"

By: Charlie R. Dela Cruz

 I was inspired after watching the video and by the people who did not lose hope amidst the struggles of their life.

I salute you, Mr. Peng Shulin.

 (done: September 9, 2010 at 1:49pm)

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The mind of the mind, QUESTIONS in a MIND.

Have you been curious to what other people is thinking?

Did you ask yourself why are you thinking ALONE?

Every person has its own mind and its their own choice of how they will use it.

Thinking alone can formulate many questions.

STRESS? DEPRESS? WHY ONLY ME?

Did you ever asked that to yourself?

Maybe it's cool to read and communicate with other people using the mind, right? It is impossible, but some people are saying that they can read the mind of other people. HOW COME???

I think, it's not as literally they can "READ" but they can "PERCEPTS INSTINCT" of others, just like FORTUNE TELLING.

When you are alone, thinking of something, thinking of problems, did it came to the point that you felt ISOLATED... "Bakit kaya ako lang ako nakakabasa ng iniisip ko?", "Bakit kaya hindi ko nababasa ang nasa isip ng iba?", "Bakit kaya magkakaiba kami ng naiisip?", etc...

Questions that very hard to answer. It is just a matter of realization and reflection.

More...

Everyone has a question.

(FAQs) QUESTIONS --  REFLECTION

"Bakit ang sasama ng iniisip niya about sakin?" - How did you know? Can you read his/her mind? Hindi mo naman nababasa dba? Isip nila yun, hayaan mo sila. Wag lang dapat nila ilabas sa isip nila yun. Itago nila baka sakaling maging ANTIQUE.

"Bakit siya ganun?" What is that? Anong "ganun"? Ganun na nga lang pinoproblema mo pa. Tandaan mo nalang na choice nila yun.

"Bakit niya ko sinisiraan?" - How can you prove that he/she is saying things against you? Anung klaseng paninira ba? Below the belt ba? Ganito isipin mo, KUNG IKAW INIISIP MO KUNG KUNG BAKIT KA NIYA SINISIRAAN, DON'T THINK OF KARMA TO HIM/HER, KASI FOR SURE NAG-IISIP DIN SIYA NG KASIRA-SIRA ABOUT SAKANYA. "REFLECT FROM WHAT IS REFLECTIVE". Hindi siya maninira kung hindi niya alam ang kasiraan niya.

"Bakit siya masaya pag nakakasakit siya ng ibang tao?" - How did you know that he/she is happy? Can you see him/her 24/7? Paano mo nlaman na masaya siya? Baka akala mo lang yun, sometimes kasi hindi natin alam na nakakasakit na tayo ng iba, MANHID kumbaga. Ang dapat lang jan, ipakita mo o sabihin mo sakanya na nasaktan ka niya. Wala naman mawawala sayo kung malalaman niya, depende nalang sakanya kung pano kiya interpret.

"Bakit ang dami kong problema, buti pa cla wala?" - How can you say that they don't have problems? You're just making your own problem. Problema na nga pinoproblema mo pa at pati ibang tao problemahin mo din.

"Bakit ang saklap ng buhay ko?" - Huh? Tanungin mo din sarili mo kung anung pinaggagawa mo at nagkaganyan yan.

"Bakit kaya nung umamin ako sakanya iniwasan niya ako?" - What is the point? Alamin mo kung nagbago ang tingin niya sayo. Kausapin mo siya kahit iwas siya sayo, no choice naman yan kundo kausapin ka din. Mag usap kayong dalawa ng solo. Lahat ng bagay kasi my RIGHT TIMING. Maybe wrong timing ka lang noon and nagulat lang siya but after that gawin mong normal lang gaya ng dati. Ang tendency kasi pag umiwas siya iiwas kadin. tama?

"Bakit nung umamin ako sakanya parang wala lang nangyari?" - What do you assume? Mahirap mag-assume. Everything is unpredicatable. Hindi mo masasabi kung ano ang nasa isip niya. Tendency is masaktan ka which is hindi dapat. Pasalamat ka nga hindi siya iwas. Minsan naman nagiging HEROIC lang, meaning to say ayaw ka niya masaktan sa sagot niya kaya parang wala lang and ayaw din niya mapalayo sayo. Be FLEXIBLE nalang, sumabay ka sa ginagawa niya baka ma-realize niya na mahal ka din pala niya.

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EVERY QUESTION THAT WE THINK WHICH INVOLVES THE MIND, OTHER PEOPLE AND OUR SELF.

I think, it is from THE MIND OF OUR MIND!

The mind in your mind.

(unfinished)

By: Charlie R. Dela Cruz

 I was inspired by my questionable thoughts.

(done: September 30, 2010 at 6:40pm)

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